Home SFBG Blogs Sex Blog
  • No categories

Sex Blog

Getting into it: ‘Vagina’ is still a book about vagina

September 19, 2012
If there is one thing that some feminists like to do, it is tell each other that they are not really feminist -- or,...

Come see me tonight: The stars of the ASKEW Festival talk sex

September 11, 2012
We probably have Madison Young to thank that the festival is happening at all – the creator of wandering alt-sex gallery Femina Potens curated...

Slutwalk’s tomorrow! Whatcha not wearing?

September 7, 2012
It's only a year old, but the international Slutwalk movement -- born in Canada when a police officer affirmed that rape could be avoided...

How to be a sex-positive parent, from a woman who knows

August 24, 2012
“It’s almost a cliché to say that families come in all shapes and sizes, but they really do”I’ve always found the expression “the birds...

Enter the abyss: Gay men draw vaginas (and you can too!)

August 22, 2012
A black whorl navigated by a rowboat. A luscious pair of pink lips, gaping wide. Earmuffs, a box of muffins, a crawling rodent and...

Too $hort signs on for Cow Palace sex soirée

August 16, 2012
Too $hort luvs porn stars. In fact, sometimes he needs them. The Oakland rapper performed with a passel of them onstage at this year's AVN...

Shall we dance? Our review of Naked Sword’s SF sex party

August 13, 2012
“At this San Francisco sex party, service comes with a smile”I watched his engorged, throbbing penis emerge at the opening of the glory hole....

Local porn stars in Pussy Riot benefit show

August 9, 2012
Change the world one-handed!Nadezhda Tolokonnikova, Maria Alyokhina, and Yekaterina Samutsevich of the band Pussy Riot have been jailed in Russia for months and face...

Molded in his image: James Deen sex toys released

August 7, 2012
Perhaps you caught our cover story this week on crossover porn star James Deen. In it, I talk about how Deen has managed to...

Donorsexual: One man explains why he spreads his sperm around

August 3, 2012
At this point, I am not one for making babies. Perhaps this has to do with the unpleasantness of cervix dialation, or maybe it's...

Inside a panda gang bang, from a woman who has been there

July 26, 2012
Last month, Kink.com director Princess Donna (perhaps you remember her Guardian advice column?) took a risk and made a gangbang movie featuring bad, bad pandas....

Ejaculation conversation: An interview with Billy Castro

July 10, 2012
“I watch some straight fisting and some gay male fisting. I guess all types of fisting”Female ejaculation can be about as mysterious as the...

Hollie Stevens lived a big life that was tragically cut short

July 6, 2012
When a slowly unfolding tragedy strikes the young and energetic, fate seems especially cruel, a notion I haven't been able to shake since learning...

No more fast food: Slow Sex Symposium proposes a love beyond capitalism

June 26, 2012
After a hectic Pride weekend, it’s about time to slow down. A Sat/30 performance-workshop (part of this week's stellar This Is What I Want...

Lady in red: What this year’s Pride leather marshal wore

June 26, 2012
Typically, the afterparty is the thing for Sunday Pride fashion. But if you weren't at the big parade this year, you might have missed...

Never underestimate the importance of lube: Fetish fashionista Seven Mitchell on life in latex

June 21, 2012
Modeling by Karma Zabetch“I have to tell my grandma I make clothes for rock stars.”The Tenderloin neighborhood's vivid street culture and its residents' bold...

Pride leather marshalls hail a “kinky renaissance”

June 19, 2012
It was almost Pride Week, I've had two leather luminaries hanging out at kink coffeeshop Wicked Grounds – it just seemed like an opportune...

Your love: Open SF conference teaches, showcases polyamorous community

June 14, 2012
“I have a partner that I live with, two girlfriends, and a number of lovers” In my San Francisco, it’s not uncommon to know someone...

Lusty for the Ladies? Worker-owned strip club still open, but needs your help

June 7, 2012
I have to apologize for not frothing up the waters with my own account of everyone's favorite (and only) worker-owned strip club the Lusty...

Key lime hair with a side of porno: the Brande Baugh story

“My job is really weird. I think about that all the time.”The Mission is a neighborhood accustomed to eccentric individuals. One would think Brande...

Sipping lattes with the transmale program specialist

“People at sex clubs are looking to hook up. It’s usually my safe sex practices that get me turned down more and not the...

Sex Talk with Princess Donna: Squirting and the ass icon

May 18, 2012
You have to have communication skills if you're going to responsibly wield the amount of sexual power that Princess Donna holds in her sexy...

In bed with the cuddle expert

“I’ve been enveloped and swimming in love the last few years”It’s early Saturday morning, and I’m quickly putting fresh sheets on my bed. The...

On the couch with James Darling

He won the Heartthrob of the Year honor at this year's Feminist Porn Awards. He teaches workshops on porn star sex. He has a...