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Curious and curiouser

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: My straight (?) man who loves women and their curves and smiles and butts and legs, who loves me and my mom...

Cooties roundup

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I get cold sores on my lips. Since I don't want to infect my wife with the herpes virus when I have an...

Frenemies with benefits

Frenemies with benefits: Can sex outlast the relationship?

Up there

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea, I'm a muff-diving dyke, sort of. The first few times with my new girlfriend, I enjoyed her taste. However, most recently she tasted...

Icky parts

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I don't like the amount of vaginal discharge I produce. It isn't really abnormal, and it doesn't smell, but I just don't...

Hot Secs

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Readers: Since every third column I've run recently has harked back to one I wrote about the movie Secretary a couple of years...

Take another letter

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I just saw Secretary yesterday, and then read your column that mentions the same movie and similar sentiment . My situation is...

The suggestions

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I am writing to quibble with your response to Imagine , the fellow in college who complained that after "a couple of...

Thwang!

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I have always enjoyed having women walk all over me with lots of stomach stomping. Shoes, boots, or barefoot, this is something...

Ends meet

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I'm married to the woman of my dreams and the love of my life. My problem is that with women in the...

Unwilling, unable

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: My boyfriend and I are in our late 20s. He's unable to have sex more than once a day, nor does he...

About-face

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I'm seeing someone who has a bad combination of fast-growing hair and sensitive skin. He has stubble an hour after shaving, but he can't...

The corrections

> andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: Love your column. That said, at the risk of sounding like a p.c. crap-spewing psycho, I am going to take an issue...

Give it a hand

> andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear readers: Every few months some harried freelancer charged with coming up with a novel spin on something sexual or other contacts me for...

The shiznit

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: Two years ago I met a guy who was a friend of a friend. I got to know him and realized that...

Dear Diary …

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I was on antidepressants for a year and just came off them recently. It was a situational depression — my close sister...

Oh dad, poor dad

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I have a bit of a problem. It's not a huge one, but I'd like to get past it. A long time...

Work, work, work

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Readers: When last we visited Polyland, I was congratuutf8g myself for doing a necessary public service: warning would-be polyamorists they would fail unless...

Trojan war

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I'm in my first sexual relationship. There's been a lot of lovely hand- and mouth-action, but no penis-vagina intercourse because I can't...

Blow pop

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Readers: Can we, may we, talk about blow jobs? I don't mean the semiotics and social history of blow jobs — those are...

Snake oil

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: Thanks for answering my question about performance anxiety . We solved the problem on our own. My girlfriend recognized that it was...

Sour milk

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I'm still breast-feeding my third baby, and my libido is completely gone. I don't even think about sex. My ob-gyn seemed to...

Spectator pumps

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: Most of the sex I've had with my girlfriend has been pretty bad, all thanks to my stupid brain. I go back...