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alt.sex: Don’t be a dick
Dear Andrea:I'm not your average 20-something male. I love sex, but not unless its part of a relationship. I guess I think too highly...
Ars longa
"Now I just fantasize about the kind of women I used to get."
We are family
Dear Andrea:Is it OK to ask out my ex sister-in-law? I always thought she was hot. Now we are both divorced and I keep...
My heart belongs to daddy
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Dear Andrea:
OK, I get it about the hot moms, but what about dads? Does anyone ever talk about them? I remember when our son...
Winter wonderland
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Dear Andrea:
Every year I dread this season, not because I particularly hate the holidays, but because the short, dark days depress me. I talked...
Attack of the 50-foot MILF
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Dear Andrea:
I initially missed the hot-for-friend's-mother definition of MILF, and was introduced to the phrase, sweetly, by a former lover. He wasn't trying to...
Blame it on mom
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Dear Readers:
We've done "cougars." We've done "MILFs." But surely it's been a while since we did "older women vs. gold-diggers?" We have to give...
MILFbone
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Dear Andrea:
Since you were so good as to weigh in on "cougar" , perhaps you could settle the evident controversy around the correct usage...
In the mood
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Dear Andrea:
I get irritable with my boyfriend when he doesn't want to have sex. This doesn't happen that often — we've been together less...
Return to Cougar Town
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Dear Readers:
I was going to write more this week about body size, body image, and sex, but I'm stupid sick, so here's an older...
Fat lot of good
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Dear Andrea:
I have a feeling this is not the best way to get a sympathetic response from you, but it' a real problem for...
The zone
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Dear Andrea:
I read an article (I think it was in Redbook) that listed six little known erogenous zones or "hot zones." One was big...
Perv 101
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Dear Andrea:
I guess this is pretty common, but it's not something I have any experience with, so please bear with me.
I have a lot...
Tickling 2.0
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Dear Andrea:
It was very interesting to me that you wrote about tickling last week . I actually had that experience as a kid, being...
Ticklish allsorts
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Dear Andrea:
I have had a fetish for ticklish women all my life. (I used to like tickling my sisters, even, although I guess that...
No gag
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Andrea is currently on vacation. This column originally ran in June 2006.
Dear Andrea:
About getting past my gag reflex while giving blow jobs: I have...
Ooo, hard
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Andrea is on vacation. This column originally ran 5/21/08.
Dear Andrea:
I'm confused. Are there any guys out there who aren't at the extremes as far...
Rear window
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Dear Andrea:
My lover and I have amazing sex. We love each other dearly too. We've been seeing each other for three years with no...
Wild thing
Dear Andrea:
I've read your column (and other sex columns) for years, and one thing I always notice you saying is that all fantasies are...
Inflatable darling
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Dear Andrea:
We were watching Mythbusters and they were using inflatable dolls instead of crash test dummies. That didn't work very well, but it did...
Nothing ventured
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Dear Andrea:
I am straight (?), married 12 years, and have always been faithful to my husband. Before we were together, I had sex with a...
Unfriends with benefits
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Dear Andrea:
Back in my wild and crazy early 20s, I met a beautiful man through his 17-year- old brother. The brother asked him to...
Am I blue?
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Dear Andrea:
The woman I just started seeing likes fooling around for hours with all our clothes on and isn't ready for sex. I like waiting...
The one true way
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Dear Readers:
WebMD sent out this slightly goofy "10 Amazing Health Benefits of Sex." Among the benefits of "healthy loving in a relationship," according to...