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alt.sex: Don’t be a dick

Dear Andrea:I'm not your average 20-something male. I love sex, but not unless its part of a relationship. I guess I think too highly...

Ars longa

"Now I just fantasize about the kind of women I used to get."

We are family

Dear Andrea:Is it OK to ask out my ex sister-in-law? I always thought she was hot. Now we are both divorced and I keep...

My heart belongs to daddy

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: OK, I get it about the hot moms, but what about dads? Does anyone ever talk about them? I remember when our son...

Winter wonderland

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: Every year I dread this season, not because I particularly hate the holidays, but because the short, dark days depress me. I talked...

Attack of the 50-foot MILF

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I initially missed the hot-for-friend's-mother definition of MILF, and was introduced to the phrase, sweetly, by a former lover. He wasn't trying to...

Blame it on mom

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Readers: We've done "cougars." We've done "MILFs." But surely it's been a while since we did "older women vs. gold-diggers?" We have to give...

MILFbone

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: Since you were so good as to weigh in on "cougar" , perhaps you could settle the evident controversy around the correct usage...

In the mood

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I get irritable with my boyfriend when he doesn't want to have sex. This doesn't happen that often — we've been together less...

Return to Cougar Town

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Readers: I was going to write more this week about body size, body image, and sex, but I'm stupid sick, so here's an older...

Fat lot of good

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I have a feeling this is not the best way to get a sympathetic response from you, but it' a real problem for...

The zone

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I read an article (I think it was in Redbook) that listed six little known erogenous zones or "hot zones." One was big...

Perv 101

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I guess this is pretty common, but it's not something I have any experience with, so please bear with me. I have a lot...

Tickling 2.0

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: It was very interesting to me that you wrote about tickling last week . I actually had that experience as a kid, being...

Ticklish allsorts

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I have had a fetish for ticklish women all my life. (I used to like tickling my sisters, even, although I guess that...

No gag

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Andrea is currently on vacation. This column originally ran in June 2006. Dear Andrea: About getting past my gag reflex while giving blow jobs: I have...

Ooo, hard

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Andrea is on vacation. This column originally ran 5/21/08. Dear Andrea: I'm confused. Are there any guys out there who aren't at the extremes as far...

Rear window

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: My lover and I have amazing sex. We love each other dearly too. We've been seeing each other for three years with no...

Wild thing

Dear Andrea: I've read your column (and other sex columns) for years, and one thing I always notice you saying is that all fantasies are...

Inflatable darling

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: We were watching Mythbusters and they were using inflatable dolls instead of crash test dummies. That didn't work very well, but it did...

Nothing ventured

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I am straight (?), married 12 years, and have always been faithful to my husband. Before we were together, I had sex with a...

Unfriends with benefits

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: Back in my wild and crazy early 20s, I met a beautiful man through his 17-year- old brother. The brother asked him to...

Am I blue?

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: The woman I just started seeing likes fooling around for hours with all our clothes on and isn't ready for sex. I like waiting...

The one true way

andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com Dear Readers: WebMD sent out this slightly goofy "10 Amazing Health Benefits of Sex." Among the benefits of "healthy loving in a relationship," according to...