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alt.sex: Don’t be a dick
Dear Andrea:I'm not your average 20-something male. I love sex, but not unless its part of a relationship. I guess I think too highly of myself to tag random chicks meaninglessly. I do have...
We are family
Dear Andrea:Is it OK to ask out my ex sister-in-law? I always thought she was hot. Now we are both divorced and I keep thinking, why not? Is there some reason I'm not thinking...
My heart belongs to daddy
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Dear Andrea:
OK, I get it about the hot moms, but what about dads? Does anyone ever talk about them? I remember when our son was younger and my husband would be out with him...
Winter wonderland
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Dear Andrea:
Every year I dread this season, not because I particularly hate the holidays, but because the short, dark days depress me. I talked to a therapist friend and she doesn't think I have...
Attack of the 50-foot MILF
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Dear Andrea:
I initially missed the hot-for-friend's-mother definition of MILF, and was introduced to the phrase, sweetly, by a former lover. He wasn't trying to separate the fuckable mothers from the nonfuckable, or fetishizing fecundity....
Blame it on mom
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Dear Readers:
We've done "cougars." We've done "MILFs." But surely it's been a while since we did "older women vs. gold-diggers?" We have to give each generation equal opportunity to blame and/or objectify every other...
In the mood
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Dear Andrea:
I get irritable with my boyfriend when he doesn't want to have sex. This doesn't happen that often — we've been together less than a year and have sex most times we're together,...
Return to Cougar Town
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Dear Readers:
I was going to write more this week about body size, body image, and sex, but I'm stupid sick, so here's an older one about age instead. It's all connected anyway. Don't...
Fat lot of good
andrea@mail.altsexcolumn.com
Dear Andrea:
I have a feeling this is not the best way to get a sympathetic response from you, but it' a real problem for me and I like your advice, so I thought I...
Tickling 2.0
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Dear Andrea:
It was very interesting to me that you wrote about tickling last week . I actually had that experience as a kid, being tickled by an uncle (actually he was my father's cousin,...
Ticklish allsorts
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Dear Andrea:
I have had a fetish for ticklish women all my life. (I used to like tickling my sisters, even, although I guess that sounds kind of weird now that I think of it...
Rear window
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Dear Andrea:
My lover and I have amazing sex. We love each other dearly too. We've been seeing each other for three years with no decrease in intensity. I'm 45, he's 37, and I've got...
Wild thing
Dear Andrea:
I've read your column (and other sex columns) for years, and one thing I always notice you saying is that all fantasies are OK, and fantasizing about something can't hurt anything. But what...
Inflatable darling
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Dear Andrea:
We were watching Mythbusters and they were using inflatable dolls instead of crash test dummies. That didn't work very well, but it did make me wonder, does anyone ever use those for actual...
Nothing ventured
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Dear Andrea:
I am straight (?), married 12 years, and have always been faithful to my husband. Before we were together, I had sex with a few boyfriends — nothing crazy. I did used to have...
Unfriends with benefits
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Dear Andrea:
Back in my wild and crazy early 20s, I met a beautiful man through his 17-year- old brother. The brother asked him to buy cigarettes, so without really investigating, I assumed this guy...
Am I blue?
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Dear Andrea:
The woman I just started seeing likes fooling around for hours with all our clothes on and isn't ready for sex. I like waiting too, except I have a medical condition called varicoceles, which...
The one true way
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Dear Readers:
WebMD sent out this slightly goofy "10 Amazing Health Benefits of Sex." Among the benefits of "healthy loving in a relationship," according to the article (summaries mine) are:
1. Less stress: Volunteers kept sex...