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Milkbone

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: Do you think lactation is sexy? My sister just had a baby, and her husband finds the breast-feeding all very erotic, and I told her there was something wrong with him. I...

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Jeepers creepers

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: My sister introduced me to one of her best friends. She's a wonderful girl, smart and tough and funny and cute and accomplished. She's traveled the world and is a field biologist....

Standard deviation

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I'm a young, mostly heterosexual woman, and I don't get much out of ordinary sex. I rely on (safe) sex with one-off partners, which just doesn't satisfy me. I'm increasingly interested in S-M...

Little creatures

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I would like to know if leeches can be used on female nipples and clits? Love, Sucky Dear Suck: Would you, now? And why would you like to know that? I suppose it's too much to...

Swear an oaf

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: After several bad relationships I started seeing someone new. She's into "playful" spanking. She started spanking me on the street one day and I told her it made me want to hit...

Going topless

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: My girlfriend is really into BDSM. At first I tried and played a convincing (I think) top/dom, but it just wasn't hot for me, so I looked some stuff up to get...

Cooler heads

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I've been dating a beautiful girl, and I mean she is hot. The problem? She's really jealous and we fight all the time. I can't look at another girl. She is incredibly...

No gag

> andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: About getting past my gag reflex while giving blow jobs: I have no idea what's the best way to practice this. I've tried bananas, but honestly that was just weird. I never...

Dodge ball

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: You once ran from a letter from "Stretch," who was interested in stretching his scrotum. As someone with naturally occurring low-hangers, let me just say they seem to have...

Thimk!

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: When my husband and I first got together in our mid 40s 10 years ago, he was fairly adventurous in bed, and I'm sure you saw this coming, but...

Bimbo on the box

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I recently bought my first "rabbit" vibrator from a nice feminist sex toy vendor's clearance sale (honeysuckleshop.com), and I love it. ("My First Rabbit" sounds like a Judy Blume title,...

Measuring stick

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: It's easy to find reliable stats on penis size, but is there anything out there on average vaginal width and depth? I know: The vagina isn't a...

Pusher girl

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: I'm a girl. I take Zoloft. It lowers my sex drive, and when I do get horny it takes forever to come. I want to experiment with Viagra. My friend...

Stick to it

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea: This might be a little vanilla for you, but I thought I'd chance it. My boyfriend and I are in our mid-20s, and I'm fairly...

Raw Deal

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Andrea:  Should I worry that my husband, who says he is straight because he just isn't attracted to guys, might be subconsciously or secretly gay? I'm concerned because he really likes anal...

One percent solution

› andrea@altsexcolumn.com Dear Readers: The column about the young woman who ceased having sex with her boyfriend after being terrified (not to say terrorized) by the antiabortion displays on their college...

Danger! Danger!

Dear Andrea: Being in my second trimester, I've read volumes about the so-called danger of air embolisms caused by blowing air into the vagina during oral sex. Now, I can't imagine I'm part of...

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Dear Andrea: My boyfriend has not been coming during vaginal sex. I finally asked him if we hadn't given him enough recovery time between go-rounds and he said yes. Thing is, it happens...